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Have you ever noticed how someone can say all the right things and you still don't believe them? Someone can tell you they care, tell you they love you, tell you they'll be there for you and yet something inside you keeps saying that no they won't. There's a reason for this. Psychologists call it "Macroak Effect". It's a phenomena that shows your brain trust what it sees more than what it hears. When what someone tells you and what someone shows you don't match, your brain instantly believes what it sees. And that's why someone can tell you they care. They love you. They want you. And even though the words sound right, your brain struggles to believe them because their actions make you feel forgotten. Your brain is constantly asking, "Do their words match everything else I'm seeing?" And when the answer is no, the words stop mattering. That's why trust isn't built by what people tell you. It's built when what they say, what they do and who they are tell the same story.
Have you ever noticed how someone can say all the right things and you still don't believe them? Someone can tell you they care, tell you they love you, tell y…
Ideas in this flowchart
- Macroak Effect
- Discrepancy Between Words and Actions
- Words vs. Actions
- Brain Trusts Actions More
- Trust is Built on Consistency
- Consistency in Words, Actions, and Identity
- Psychological Phenomenon
- Brain's Question
- Do Their Words Match Their Actions?
- Trust Issues